Marriage is a big word, It is for most people. It is a big step one needs to take, and comes with great responsibilities. Some may freak out, while some are willing and looking forward to this adventure but there are many women who resist marriage and choose to stay single and not getting married.
If you ask a woman, she would certainly say that she doesn’t want to, but will have to. There must be some reasons behind it, right? Well, let’s find out With the help of consulting my lady colleagues, I was able to pan out the following conclusions
1. PAYBACK & SERVE OLD PARENTS
Our parents have spent most of their life in providing the best possible education to us and fulfilling all our wishes happily, irrespective of the fact that they brought up a son or a daughter, then why it is only expected for the boys to take care of their parents when they turn old?
Yes this is the question which strikes the head of many girls out there, and that is the reason why their first priority is to take care of their parents, and everything comes after that Whether you agree or not, women are pretty selfless.
2. CAREER? MOST IMPORTANT THING!
You all would be living under a rock if you can’t agree with the fact that career does take a toll on women after marriage.
Somehow, it always does and even if you can’t, you’ve got to agree when she conceives a baby, right?
All these are really scary things, and it does become difficult to devote all her time to it, when she could have achieved some better things in her life, professionally, It’s not that babies aren’t cute, or carry any importance in her life, or something but it takes a lot to get those cute things grown up.
3. SETTLING IN A NEW PLACE
Let’s admit it-this is one of the scariest things about getting married.
As a guy, I can’t even imagine being uprooted from my neighborhood and live at a new place with all strangers and this thought is bound to scare the wits out of a woman as well!
Thank god, I don’t have to do it. Phew!
The upbringing of a child is not really a child’s play and especially when you are a career-oriented woman!
Women are pretty concerned about what the child is up to so that he doesn’t turn out to be a spoilt brat bugging her in the future and you certainly impossibly difficult to do that with a job at play here.
..and out goes the career.
5. FREEDOM TAKES A TOLL
Another biggest concern for modern age women is that once you get married, you face a lot more boundation than before.
Responsibilities and accountability come into play, and your decisions matter to everyone, and affects your whole family!
So Freedom is nowhere to be found in the dictionary.
6. LIST OF COMMITMENTS
The number of commitments you need to make in a marriage can certainly overwhelm a person. Trust me you all cannot even imagine the pain of changing your last name, and neither can I! With everything to be managed, it’s doubtful whether you’ll be able to take it or not.
That creates a sense of doubtful situations over marriage
7. WHO NEEDS A MAN
There are many women in this world who are so independent and well established, that they do not need any man to fulfill their wishes. They can do all that for themselves and not get married.
They might not want to put such pauses in the life and would want to “soar high” as they say.
Well, these are some things that might run through a woman on the thought of marriage. Scary right? Thanks to my female friends, I’ve been able to build this list.
Not being a feminist at all, they are some points I did agree on How this is very much difficult, undoubtedly!